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Early Stages of Gender Dysphoria: Understanding and Coping Strategies

Early Stages of Gender Dysphoria: Understanding and Coping Strategies

by John Dray | 7th Nov 2024 | Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles, Psychotherapist Resources

Signs, Feelings, and Coping Strategies What Is Gender Dysphoria? Gender dysphoria is the psychological distress experienced when a person’s gender identity does not align with the sex they were assigned at birth. This dissonance can affect individuals of all ages,...
Adapting the Duluth Model: Addressing Intimate Partner Violence in LGBTQ+ Relationships

Adapting the Duluth Model: Addressing Intimate Partner Violence in LGBTQ+ Relationships

by John Dray | 2nd Nov 2024 | Psychotherapist Resources

The Duluth Model is one of the most widely used frameworks for understanding and addressing intimate partner violence (IPV). Developed in the 1980s by the Domestic Abuse Intervention Project in Duluth, Minnesota, it is centred on the concept of power and control as a...
Johnson’s Typology of Domestic Violence: Evolution and Implications

Johnson’s Typology of Domestic Violence: Evolution and Implications

by John Dray | 25th Oct 2024 | Psychotherapist Resources

In 1995, Michael P. Johnson introduced a framework that significantly altered our understanding of domestic violence: the Typology of Domestic Violence. His work aimed to clarify the diverse forms and dynamics of intimate partner violence (IPV), highlighting that not...
Understanding Intersectionality in the Therapy Room: A Comprehensive Guide

Understanding Intersectionality in the Therapy Room: A Comprehensive Guide

by John Dray | 20th Oct 2024 | Psychotherapist Resources

Intersectionality is a term that has gained significant traction in social and therapeutic contexts in recent years. Coined by Kimberlé Crenshaw in 1989, it refers to the complex and cumulative way in which different forms of discrimination (such as racism, sexism,...
Understanding Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)

Understanding Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)

by John Dray | 16th Oct 2024 | Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles, Mental Health Tips

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) refer to potentially traumatic events that occur in childhood (before the age of 18) and can have lasting effects on physical, emotional, and mental well-being. These experiences are commonly categorised into three domains: Abuse:...
Is Mindfulness Simply Creative Boredom?

Is Mindfulness Simply Creative Boredom?

by John Dray | 12th Oct 2024 | Fun Tip, Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles

In the fast-paced world we live in, the concept of mindfulness has gained traction as a method for reducing stress, increasing self-awareness, and improving mental well-being. But a question often arises—could mindfulness just be a form of structured boredom? Or does...
The Power of Boredom: Why It’s Essential for Good Mental Health

The Power of Boredom: Why It’s Essential for Good Mental Health

by John Dray | 8th Oct 2024 | Mental Health Tips

The Importance of Boredom for Good Mental Health In a world filled with constant stimulation from our smartphones, social media, and the fast-paced nature of modern life, boredom has become something we actively avoid. However, boredom is not the enemy it is often...
I’m Dead. Now What?

I’m Dead. Now What?

by Sally Eastwood | 4th Oct 2024 | Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles, Mental Health Tips, Psychotherapist Resources

This isn’t about what happens to us after we die. That great mystery is, as yet, unknown. This is about what we leave behind for our loved ones. Are they left to deal with a mountain of paperwork and questions, along with their grief? Or can they take a deep breath,...
Understanding the Window of Tolerance in Trauma-Informed Care

Understanding the Window of Tolerance in Trauma-Informed Care

by John Dray | 27th Sep 2024 | Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles, Psychotherapist Resources

The “window of tolerance” is a concept introduced by Dr. Dan Siegel that refers to the optimal zone of arousal in which a person can function effectively and respond to stress in a regulated way. When individuals are within their window of tolerance, they...
Navigating My Sexuality in a Straight Marriage

Navigating My Sexuality in a Straight Marriage

by Anonymous | 23rd Sep 2024 | Fun Tip, Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles

When I married my partner, I was deeply in love and felt certain about the life we were building together. We were what society would call a “straight couple,” and our marriage reflected that definition. Yet, as the years passed, I began to notice feelings and...
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