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Self-Soothing Techniques for People with ADHD

Self-Soothing Techniques for People with ADHD

by John Dray | 17th Nov 2024 | Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles, Mental Health Tips, Psychotherapist Resources

Living with ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) can be challenging, especially when it comes to managing overwhelming emotions, impulsivity, and restlessness. These symptoms can make it difficult for individuals to regulate their emotions, leading to...
The Role of Process and Relationship in Psychotherapy: Differences and Similarities

The Role of Process and Relationship in Psychotherapy: Differences and Similarities

by John Dray | 15th Nov 2024 | Psychotherapist Resources

In the field of psychotherapy, process and relationship are two fundamental constructs that significantly influence therapeutic outcomes. While these elements often interrelate, understanding their distinct contributions and the overlaps between them can deepen a...
Understanding the Relationship Between Sleep Disturbance, Stress, and Substance Use

Understanding the Relationship Between Sleep Disturbance, Stress, and Substance Use

by John Dray | 11th Nov 2024 | Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles, Psychotherapist Resources

Sleep disturbances and stress are intricately connected, with each often influencing and exacerbating the other. People experiencing high levels of stress frequently report difficulty falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking up feeling unrefreshed. Over time, the...
Early Stages of Gender Dysphoria: Understanding and Coping Strategies

Early Stages of Gender Dysphoria: Understanding and Coping Strategies

by John Dray | 7th Nov 2024 | Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles, Psychotherapist Resources

Signs, Feelings, and Coping Strategies What Is Gender Dysphoria? Gender dysphoria is the psychological distress experienced when a person’s gender identity does not align with the sex they were assigned at birth. This dissonance can affect individuals of all ages,...
Adapting the Duluth Model: Addressing Intimate Partner Violence in LGBTQ+ Relationships

Adapting the Duluth Model: Addressing Intimate Partner Violence in LGBTQ+ Relationships

by John Dray | 2nd Nov 2024 | Psychotherapist Resources

The Duluth Model is one of the most widely used frameworks for understanding and addressing intimate partner violence (IPV). Developed in the 1980s by the Domestic Abuse Intervention Project in Duluth, Minnesota, it is centred on the concept of power and control as a...
Johnson’s Typology of Domestic Violence: Evolution and Implications

Johnson’s Typology of Domestic Violence: Evolution and Implications

by John Dray | 25th Oct 2024 | Psychotherapist Resources

In 1995, Michael P. Johnson introduced a framework that significantly altered our understanding of domestic violence: the Typology of Domestic Violence. His work aimed to clarify the diverse forms and dynamics of intimate partner violence (IPV), highlighting that not...
Understanding Intersectionality in the Therapy Room: A Comprehensive Guide

Understanding Intersectionality in the Therapy Room: A Comprehensive Guide

by John Dray | 20th Oct 2024 | Psychotherapist Resources

Intersectionality is a term that has gained significant traction in social and therapeutic contexts in recent years. Coined by Kimberlé Crenshaw in 1989, it refers to the complex and cumulative way in which different forms of discrimination (such as racism, sexism,...
Understanding Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)

Understanding Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)

by John Dray | 16th Oct 2024 | Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles, Mental Health Tips

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) refer to potentially traumatic events that occur in childhood (before the age of 18) and can have lasting effects on physical, emotional, and mental well-being. These experiences are commonly categorised into three domains: Abuse:...
Is Mindfulness Simply Creative Boredom?

Is Mindfulness Simply Creative Boredom?

by John Dray | 12th Oct 2024 | Fun Tip, Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles

In the fast-paced world we live in, the concept of mindfulness has gained traction as a method for reducing stress, increasing self-awareness, and improving mental well-being. But a question often arises—could mindfulness just be a form of structured boredom? Or does...
The Power of Boredom: Why It’s Essential for Good Mental Health

The Power of Boredom: Why It’s Essential for Good Mental Health

by John Dray | 8th Oct 2024 | Mental Health Tips

The Importance of Boredom for Good Mental Health In a world filled with constant stimulation from our smartphones, social media, and the fast-paced nature of modern life, boredom has become something we actively avoid. However, boredom is not the enemy it is often...
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