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The Danger of Relying on the Child Ego State in Transactional Analysis

The Danger of Relying on the Child Ego State in Transactional Analysis

John Lanchester’s quote in Whoops! about the perils of relying on misleading information provides a compelling analogy for the dangers of being overly dependent on the Child Ego State in Transactional Analysis (TA). ‘You’re worse off relying on misleading information...

Watercolour illustration of a tomato-shaped Pomodoro timer placed on a wooden table, surrounded by soft pastel swirls and delicate natural elements like leaves, creating a calming and reflective atmosphere. The background features a tranquil gradient, symbolising mindfulness and wellness.

Using the Pomodoro Technique to Alleviate Pain

The Pomodoro Technique as a Tool for Alleviating Pain Chronic pain or even temporary discomfort can feel overwhelming, making it difficult to focus, manage daily tasks, or even enjoy moments of rest. While medication and therapies play a significant role in pain...

How to overcome temptation

How to Control Temptations in Your Life

Temptation is a universal experience, a challenge that can distract us from our goals and values. Whether it’s resisting unhealthy food, curbing impulsive spending, or staying focused on work, managing temptation is essential for personal growth and well-being. The...

A watercolour painting of a bearded man sitting in a chair, looking bored with his head resting on one hand. His facial expression conveys disinterest, and the muted living room background blends softly with watercolour washes, creating a tranquil yet dull atmosphere.

Is Mindfulness Simply Creative Boredom?

In the fast-paced world we live in, the concept of mindfulness has gained traction as a method for reducing stress, increasing self-awareness, and improving mental well-being. But a question often arises—could mindfulness just be a form of structured boredom? Or does...

Watercolour image of two intertwined abstract human silhouettes, symbolising sexual fluidity and the blending of identities in a 'straight' marriage.

Navigating My Sexuality in a Straight Marriage

When I married my partner, I was deeply in love and felt certain about the life we were building together. We were what society would call a “straight couple,” and our marriage reflected that definition. Yet, as the years passed, I began to notice feelings and...

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