I have encountered numerous cases where domestic abuse is misunderstood, not only by those directly involved but also by the systems designed to help. To bridge this gap in understanding, I often refer to what is known as the “Three-Planet Model of Domestic Abuse.”...
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Understanding Domestic Abuse: The Three-Planet Model
What Is the Difference Between a Psychotherapist and a Counsellor?
When clients come to me for help, they often ask, “What is the difference between a psychotherapist and a counsellor?” It’s a common question, and the distinction can be quite important when seeking the right support. Both professionals are trained to help people...
Who Is Jon Kabat-Zinn and What Is His Contribution to Mindfulness?
When I first began exploring mindfulness, I quickly encountered the name Jon Kabat-Zinn. If you’re unfamiliar with him, Jon Kabat-Zinn is widely recognised as a pioneer in the integration of mindfulness into Western medicine and psychology. His work has had a profound...
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Painting Life with the Palette of Emotions: Exploring Happiness, Sadness, Anger, and Fear
As I navigate through life, I’ve come to see that emotions are like colours on a painter’s palette—each one adding depth and dimension to the canvas of my experiences. The four basic emotions—happiness, sadness, anger, and fear—are fundamental to who I am. Yet, I’ve...
Exploring the Link Between Sleep and Anger: Understanding the Connection
When I tell my therapist that I didn’t sleep, she often asks me what I am angry about. This might seem like an unusual question, but there’s a profound connection between our emotions and sleep patterns. In my experience, sleep is not just a physical act of resting;...
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How would you feel about a computerised psychotherapy? As a glance towards the evolution of therapies, I find the comparison between digital interventions like Deprexis and traditional psychotherapy fascinating. Each has its own set of benefits, catering to different...
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The Power of Self-Discovery: Exploring Wants, Needs, Desires, Thoughts, and Feelings in Psychotherapy
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