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The ‘F’s of IFS: A Guide to Internal Family Systems’ Core Process

The ‘F’s of IFS: A Guide to Internal Family Systems’ Core Process

by John Dray | 11th Jul 2025 | Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles, Mental Health Tips, Psychotherapist Resources

I recently went on an Internal Family Systems (IFS). So that I have an easy reference, I am writing a few articles around what I learned. IFS was developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz and is a psychotherapeutic model grounded in the belief that the mind is naturally...
The ‘F’s of IFS: A Guide to Internal Family Systems’ Core Process

The ‘C’s of the Self in IFS: Cultivating Compassionate Presence

by John Dray | 1st Jul 2025 | Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles, Mental Health Tips, Psychotherapist Resources

Introduction In Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz, healing doesn’t come from analysing or overpowering parts—it comes from being present with them from the core of our being. This core is known as the Self. The Self in IFS is not...
Why Removing the T from LGBTQ+ Undermines the Whole Movement

Why Removing the T from LGBTQ+ Undermines the Whole Movement

by John Dray | 25th Jun 2025 | Psychotherapist Resources

Another article commemorating Pride Month. The LGBTQ+ movement has always been about solidarity, mutual recognition, and collective liberation. Yet, recent calls to remove the “T” — transgender — from LGBTQ+ betray the very principles on which the movement was built....
Toilets, Changing Rooms, and the Policing of Queer Bodies Since 1800

Toilets, Changing Rooms, and the Policing of Queer Bodies Since 1800

by John Dray | 20th Jun 2025 | Psychotherapist Resources

As June is Pride month, I have decided to have a look at something that has become a focus in recent weeks. Toilets and changing rooms are more than just practical spaces — they are social battlegrounds. Since the 1800s, these facilities have been used to enforce...
How to Support Trans People During Pride Month

How to Support Trans People During Pride Month

by John Dray | 12th Jun 2025 | Mental Health Tips, Psychotherapist Resources

🏳️‍⚧️ How to Support Trans People During Pride Month Introduction Pride Month is a time of celebration, remembrance, and resistance. While the entire LGBTQ+ community deserves recognition and support, trans people—especially trans women of colour—have often been at...
Book Review: Mindsight by Daniel J. Siegel

Book Review: Mindsight by Daniel J. Siegel

by John Dray | 6th Jun 2025 | Psychotherapist Resources

Daniel J. Siegel’s Mindsight: The New Science of Personal Transformation (2010) presents a compelling integration of neuroscience and psychotherapy, grounded in what he terms interpersonal neurobiology. Aimed at both clinicians and lay readers, the book combines...
What Is Pesso Boyden Therapy? A Look at Its Role in Psychotherapy

What Is Pesso Boyden Therapy? A Look at Its Role in Psychotherapy

by John Dray | 10th May 2025 | Psychotherapist Resources

What Is Pesso Boyden Therapy? A Look at Its Role in Psychotherapy Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor (PBSP) is a body-based therapeutic approach developed by dancer and therapist Albert Pesso and his wife Diane Boyden-Pesso in the 1960s. While rooted in psychotherapeutic...
The Pros and Cons of Using Touch in Psychotherapy

The Pros and Cons of Using Touch in Psychotherapy

by John Dray | 5th May 2025 | Psychotherapist Resources

Touch is one of the most primal forms of communication, and its potential role in psychotherapy is both powerful and controversial. While some clinicians find therapeutic touch helpful for building rapport and promoting healing (e.g. Yalom), others warn against its...
Understanding Erskine’s 8 Relational Needs: A Guide to Healthier Connections

Understanding Erskine’s 8 Relational Needs: A Guide to Healthier Connections

by John Dray | 1st May 2025 | Mental Health and Wellbeing Articles, Mental Health Tips

Human relationships are at the core of our emotional well-being. Whether it’s with family, friends, or romantic partners, the quality of our connections profoundly impacts our mental health and sense of fulfillment. Psychologist Richard G. Erskine, a pioneer in...
An Introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS)

An Introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS)

by John Dray | 25th Apr 2025 | Psychotherapist Resources

Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a transformative psychotherapeutic approach developed by Dr Richard C. Schwartz in the 1980s. Rooted in systems theory, IFS views the mind as being composed of “parts,” each with its own unique perspectives, emotions, and...
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