Talking therapy, also known as psychotherapy or counselling, is a powerful tool for addressing emotional and mental health challenges. Yet for many men, the idea of opening up about personal feelings can feel unfamiliar—or even daunting. This article explores what men...
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What Can You Expect to Get from Talking Therapy? A Guide for Men
Freud’s Psychoanalytic Theory: Elements That Endure
I was recently pondering which parts of Sigmund Freud’s psychoanalytic theory are still relevant. While many of his ideas have faced criticism and revision over the decades, certain aspects of his work have stood the test of time, influencing modern psychology,...
Melanie Klein’s Best Possible Outcome for a Child: Emotional Integration and Maturity
Melanie Klein, a pioneer of psychoanalytic theory, revolutionised the understanding of childhood development through her focus on the inner emotional world of infants and their relationships with primary caregivers. Central to her work was the concept of achieving...
The Long-Term Effects of Ignoring a Child’s Wants, Needs, Feelings, and Desires
Childhood is a critical period where emotional needs, feelings, and desires are nurtured to build a healthy sense of self. When a child’s emotional world is neglected—whether through outright dismissal or inadvertent ignorance—the repercussions can ripple far into...
Does Current Culture Around ADHD and ASD Encourage Unmasking or Exacerbate Features?
In recent years, there has been a growing awareness of neurodiversity, including conditions like Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). Social media platforms, online communities, and popular media have brought these...
Using the Pomodoro Technique to Alleviate Pain
The Pomodoro Technique as a Tool for Alleviating Pain Chronic pain or even temporary discomfort can feel overwhelming, making it difficult to focus, manage daily tasks, or even enjoy moments of rest. While medication and therapies play a significant role in pain...
Taking Down the Decorations: When Christmas Reveals Relationship Truths
The Christmas season has a way of bringing people together, often in ways that test the limits of our patience. Families crowd under one roof, old habits resurface, and unspoken tensions can bubble to the surface. For many, the end of the festive season brings not...
Thinking About What to Do in the New Year: Reflections on Training as a Psychotherapist
As the new year approaches, it’s a time for reflection—a chance to pause, recalibrate, and refocus on the journey ahead. For those of us already training as psychotherapists, the start of a new year offers an opportunity to think about where we are in our training,...
The Transformative Power of Socratic Questioning in Therapy
Socratic questioning is a cornerstone of many therapeutic approaches, particularly cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT). Its purpose is to guide clients toward self-awareness and critical thinking by encouraging them to question their beliefs and explore alternative...