In the fast-paced world we live in, the concept of mindfulness has gained traction as a method for reducing stress, increasing self-awareness, and improving mental well-being. But a question often arises—could mindfulness just be a form of structured boredom? Or does...
Psychotherapy
Is Mindfulness Simply Creative Boredom?
The Power of Boredom: Why It’s Essential for Good Mental Health
The Importance of Boredom for Good Mental Health In a world filled with constant stimulation from our smartphones, social media, and the fast-paced nature of modern life, boredom has become something we actively avoid. However, boredom is not the enemy it is often...
What Is Stimming and How Can It Help Neurodivergent People?
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Five Ways to Wellbeing
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Understanding The Narcissist’s Prayer: A Tool for Insight and Healing
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Understanding Domestic Abuse: The Three-Planet Model
I have encountered numerous cases where domestic abuse is misunderstood, not only by those directly involved but also by the systems designed to help. To bridge this gap in understanding, I often refer to what is known as the “Three-Planet Model of Domestic Abuse.”...
What Is the Difference Between a Psychotherapist and a Counsellor?
When clients come to me for help, they often ask, “What is the difference between a psychotherapist and a counsellor?” It’s a common question, and the distinction can be quite important when seeking the right support. Both professionals are trained to help people...
Who Is Jon Kabat-Zinn and What Is His Contribution to Mindfulness?
When I first began exploring mindfulness, I quickly encountered the name Jon Kabat-Zinn. If you’re unfamiliar with him, Jon Kabat-Zinn is widely recognised as a pioneer in the integration of mindfulness into Western medicine and psychology. His work has had a profound...
Exploring the Link Between Sleep and Anger: Understanding the Connection
When I tell my therapist that I didn’t sleep, she often asks me what I am angry about. This might seem like an unusual question, but there’s a profound connection between our emotions and sleep patterns. In my experience, sleep is not just a physical act of resting;...
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